For the last 6 months, I've really been trying to figure out what to do with my blogroll. Some of the blogs I followed in my quest for C haven't been updated in over a year. Yet, I don't have the heart to delete them from the list as I felt/feel such a kinship with many of them. They helped me through such a difficult time in my life and in the off chance they update their blogs, I surely don't want to miss that.
I wonder what they're up to sometimes. I wondering if they're still trying, moved on, or gave birth to #2. I wonder if they're content with #1 and how come I can't seem to find my peace as well.
I have been increasingly trying to find blogs from writers who struggled for #1 and who are also in the trenches for #2. After all, misery loves company, right? This is a more difficult population of bloggers to find as many who are currently mothers just don't seem to have the time to blog, or have lost interest. Should I leave them up and keep hoping they'll come back, or should I turn the page?